Ugh, I hate this movie! Almost as much as I hate that movie, The Ugly Truth.  As much as we fail to read the writing on the wall, there it is, plain as day! Staring back at us, with sharp edges.  What does it say, “He’s just not that into you.” So what’s a girl to do?  First of all, it’s probably a good idea to not put yourself in the position in the first place.  If he’s married to someone else, and has chosen not to sever the relationship, for whatever reason, accept that he’s just not that into you and walk away.  You deserve to be valued, you deserve to be respected, and if he’s just not that into you, it’s okay.  There’s somebody out there who will be, and it’s better to be ready for when he shows up, than to sit around and stay stuck and hoping.  #notetoself