If Oakland Raiders’ draft pick Gareon Conley admits to having “brief oral sex” from his accuser on the night of the alleged assault …” does that constitute sexual assault if she was under the influence?  Under the influence of what?  Well, that’s another question entirely, but what constitutes sexual assault, how’s a guy to know if it’s consensual or not, if both parties are partying?  Do you know the laws that define sexual assault?  Are you or have you committed rape?  Or been raped?  What responsibility is upon us all to know the laws, abide by them, and/or change them if they make little sense?