Seriously, I thought I would get through this anger phase and move on over to that next phase but here he goes again telling me all those things I might have chosen to ignore.  He does not want to be in a relationship and he’s happy with me but he’s just not the relationship sort of guy, at least not now anyway.  So it’s on me, right?  It’s up to me to  maintain firm boundaries and decide what I want. Yeah, yeah, I know!   Truth be told, I don’t care about being in a relationship but if I’m going to have sex with someone, then I sort of categorize this as a relationship.  So we’re back to playing Monopoly and we’re NOT in a relationship! Where the heck is my dictionary! 😉