This is Pam’s article published by “The Best Men’s Mag” blog — tonight we’ll talk about the scandal in the fantasy sports industry, sports betting vs. fantasy, my PhD, Pam’s gossip column, as well as, her expertise in fantasy — first hour all about Pam’s passion for “Kinky” and my love of the library and a very special “Cowboy” 

The “popular one” Pamela Michelle, That’s “Ms. Pamela” is your nasty once again has to choose an article for the Dimple Date Show. It’s brought to you by Voice of Choice Nation and is hosted by Michelle Sports X as well.

You know the drill by now we talk about various topics that have to do with various aspects of dating, and relationships. This week Men’s Health magazine gets the nod with the article (The kinkiest things that women would let you try) by Eric Spitznagel.

A man’s mind will wander with many different things. How far will she go? How adventurous is she? Where is the line? Of course you don’t want to reveal everything in the beginning. You must keep them guessing still, to add mystery. Women or Men will keep certain fantasies to themselves in fear of judgment from their partner. It doesn’t matter how long you are with someone, depending on the fetish or fantasy you don’t want the, OMG! You are into that? Some secrets never surface.

This article was spun from “Kinky women research study” published in the scientific archives of sexual behaviors by author Jennifer Eve Rehor, M. A. – A relationship therapist in San Diego. She conducted a study of human sexuality at San Francisco State University. After surveying 1’580 women, and yes-sorry guys this was just women but feel free to weigh in and comment below. She asked them about their participation and interest in 126 sexual behaviors. I will highlight some of the following, and give my take.

First take away the study highlights is 76% of women are into “light bondage” Makes sense since the release of Fifty Shades of Grey made it cool to admit you like when your man takes control of you.

Funny thing is this. When it comes to expressing yourself or revealing your passion and fantasies it’s still more acceptable for men. Double standard yet again? No, I don’t think so; it’s as simple as freak behavior isn’t gender driven.

If your partner said they liked fire play, what would your reaction be? As adventurous as I can be, this is something I’d back off. Fire play? Yes, it’s exactly how it sounds. I could never imagine burning myself in the name of pleasure. Yet, according to this study 54% of women get off on it. Is this something you can be talked into? In my mind I almost imagine a circus carnival act. If you were willing to explore this, I’d recommend a fire extinguisher by the bed!

Next up with only 15% is “forced maculation” and “forced cross-dressing” at 35%.This is simple for me, anything forced is never fun. I get some people like to be dominated and controlled. However, if your partner is not willing, it takes all the fun out of it. Anything that is forced just makes things awkward. Instead maybe your partner can be slowly talked into such gender switching roles.

Thank God the next turn on is on 6.84% though I’m disturbed it’s even that high.”Sex with a corpse.” You may say, “Pamela, that’s not a high percentage, but keep in mind this survey was only 1580 women. Meaning a whopping 108 found this to be a turn on. Here I go being a bit judgmental; I never claimed this piece would be a judgment free zone on my end. Maybe it’s the power-less aspect of it, maybe it’s about control. Still to pretend like your dead, and let someone have sex with you, is a whole other realm. Honey, would you like to play “Corpse Bride tonight?” Hmmmm, I have to say No thank you!

Do you like cold shiny objects pressed against your soft flesh? 38% of women do because they enjoy a little “knife play” this particular fetish is a home break in or mugging scenario.Forceful, dangerous, and making the “victim” feels helpless. Which can lead into the next “Blood play” favored by 36% often these two things go hand in hand, so it’s not shocking that the percentage only went down by 2%. This rabbit hole is reserved for people who completely trust each other. Allowing someone to cut you is another playing field. You can like it rough, but knowing the line is important.

This study focused on some very unique aspect of role-play that isn’t often talked about. Many of this turn on can lead to very dangerous out comes. Perhaps that’s the real turn on. The fact you are pushing boundaries and giving yourself to someone in a vulnerable way. Next time the conversation of
“What’s your fantasy” approaches remember this. While men seem to go for the Lady in the streets freak in the sheets girl. Know how to communicate your desires, and be prepared for the unexpected!

The “popular one” Pamela Michelle, That’s “Ms. Pamela” is your nasty once again has to choose an article for the Dimple Date Show. It’s brought to you by Voice of Choice Nation and is hosted by Michelle Sports X as well.

You know the drill by now we talk about various topics that have to do with various aspects of dating, and relationships. This week Men’s Health magazine gets the nod with the article (The kinkiest things that women would let you try) by Eric Spitznagel.

A man’s mind will wander with many different things. How far will she go? How adventurous is she? Where is the line? Of course you don’t want to reveal everything in the beginning. You must keep them guessing still, to add mystery. Women or Men will keep certain fantasies to themselves in fear of judgment from their partner. It doesn’t matter how long you are with someone, depending on the fetish or fantasy you don’t want the, OMG! You are into that? Some secrets never surface.

This article was spun from “Kinky women research study” published in the scientific archives of sexual behaviors by author Jennifer Eve Rehor, M. A. – A relationship therapist in San Diego. She conducted a study of human sexuality at San Francisco State University. After surveying 1’580 women, and yes-sorry guys this was just women but feel free to weigh in and comment below. She asked them about their participation and interest in 126 sexual behaviors. I will highlight some of the following, and give my take.

First take away the study highlights is 76% of women are into “light bondage” Makes sense since the release of Fifty Shades of Grey made it cool to admit you like when your man takes control of you.

Funny thing is this. When it comes to expressing yourself or revealing your passion and fantasies it’s still more acceptable for men. Double standard yet again? No, I don’t think so; it’s as simple as freak behavior isn’t gender driven.

If your partner said they liked fire play, what would your reaction be? As adventurous as I can be, this is something I’d back off. Fire play? Yes, it’s exactly how it sounds. I could never imagine burning myself in the name of pleasure. Yet, according to this study 54% of women get off on it. Is this something you can be talked into? In my mind I almost imagine a circus carnival act. If you were willing to explore this, I’d recommend a fire extinguisher by the bed!

Next up with only 15% is “forced maculation” and “forced cross-dressing” at 35%.

This is simple for me, anything forced is never fun. I get some people like to be dominated and controlled. However, if your partner is not willing, it takes all the fun out of it. Anything that is forced just makes things awkward. Instead maybe your partner can be slowly talked into such gender switching roles.

Thank God the next turn on is on 6.84% though I’m disturbed it’s even that high.”Sex with a corpse.” You may say, “Pamela, that’s not a high percentage, but keep in mind this survey was only 1580 women. Meaning a whopping 108 found this to be a turn on. Here I go being a bit judgmental; I never claimed this piece would be a judgment free zone on my end. Maybe it’s the power-less aspect of it, maybe it’s about control. Still to pretend like your dead, and let someone have sex with you, is a whole other realm. Honey, would you like to play “Corpse Bride tonight?” Hmmmm, I have to say No thank you!

Do you like cold shiny objects pressed against your soft flesh? 38% of women do because they enjoy a little “knife play” this particular fetish is a home break in or mugging scenario.

Forceful, dangerous, and making the “victim” feels helpless. Which can lead into the next “Blood play” favored by 36% often these two things go hand in hand, so it’s not shocking that the percentage only went down by 2%. This rabbit hole is reserved for people who completely trust each other. Allowing someone to cut you is another playing field. You can like it rough, but knowing the line is important.

This study focused on some very unique aspect of role-play that isn’t often talked about. Many of this turn on can lead to very dangerous out comes. Perhaps that’s the real turn on. The fact you are pushing boundaries and giving yourself to someone in a vulnerable way. Next time the conversation of
“What’s your fantasy” approaches remember this. While men seem to go for the Lady in the streets freak in the sheets girl. Know how to communicate your desires, and be prepared for the unexpected!SXMPhoto